So your boyfriend recently broke up with you and you want to get some advice on how to get your ex boyfriend back. Now before we get into what you need to do, I really want to let you know that I’m sorry for what happened and I know that you probably just want to roll up into a ball and kind of just distance yourself from the world and what’s going on.
Well, that’s not going to do anything to help the situation and I promise it’s not going to help you feel any better.
Trust me, I’ve been where you are and on both sides.
I’ve been the guy that gave my girl the boot and I’ve been the guy that got the boot, so I know both sides, but I also know what works on guys to get them back and that’s what I’m here to share with you.
Now whether the relationship breaking up was your fault, his fault, or you don’t even really know why he broke up with you, just know that there are tons of couples literally every single day that are breaking up and even more important, getting back together like clock work.
So you don’t have to worry. No matter how hopeless you think your situation may be, I’m going to teach you the very first thing you need to do and teach you how to get your ex boyfriend back.
Let’s get started…
The first step toward getting him back is to simply accept what’s happened and you have to be OK with it. This is a really important step and until you do it, you’re not going to get anywhere.
You see, if you accept what happened and let him know that you accept the decision he made and actually tell him that after thinking about it you think that it’s a good idea, you’re going to start playing with his psychology and start using it in your favor.
Now don’t let this psychology talk creep you out. You don’t need to be an expert in this stuff to use it and get what you want out of it.
And here’s why this works. When you tell your ex boyfriend that you accept the outcome and that you in fact think that it’s a good idea for you guys to separate or take a break or whatever, you’re kind of turning the tables on him. You’re taking the control of the situation out of his hands and you are now in control of yourself, not him.
What’s more, you’ve suddenly gone from someone that is readily available for him to use at his disposal, from someone that might have been harassing him, apologizing for whatever happened, (by the way, PLEASE don’t do any of that! You don’t want to come off as some needy girl. That’s exactly what he’s trying to get away from!), now to someone that is more difficult to get back, a girl that doesn’t appear to need her boyfriend to make her feel good.
Do you see the power of this?
It’s the classic Romeo and Juliet story. Instead of having your parents make it seem impossible for you guys together, you are the one that’s saying that you guys need a break or need to end the relationship and taking all the control out of him. And people are naturally attracted to things that are more difficult to get.
Just think about when you go to the mall and see something that’s too expensive for your budget now or for whatever reason you can’t get it just yet and then you do whatever you need to do to get it. Don’t you value that way more than normal things that you can just pick up?
Well it works the same with his Psychology and I’m telling you it’s like gold.
So all you have to do, is write him a hand written letter (and yes, I do mean HAND WRITTEN) simply explaining that after thinking about it, you understand and that you think the same thing.
You can word it however you’d like but I think you get the idea…
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